Now, this book has come along to challenge that. they say that not only is it very attainable, after a few weeks of practise, but it's more pleasurable than the brief peak that we've been handed all these years.
If you know Mitre Peak at Milford Sound, quite stunning and beautiful in itself... they say you could liken ejaculatory orgasm to that ...... but non ejaculatory, multiple orgasm to all the surrounding mountains going on and on...
can find a great review of the book here: Menprovement.com
may be familiar with a sexual activity called edging, whereby you
delay ejaculation by stopping movement just prior to ejaculation,
extending play time, and if your partner is a woman, giving her a
chance to come. The goal of edging is the delay, and the bigger,
better orgasm. The goal of multiple orgasming is to NOT
ejaculate, but to explore and advance the ecstasy prior to
ejaculation. I'm not making this up, this knowledge had been
around for thousands of years.
goal takes some preparation and some requirements. First you're
going to need some sort of a body. Any sort will do - but it does
need to be well rested.
also need to learn something, that while it may seem on the
surface to be easy, it's not: count your breaths to 100. This is
to develop your concentration. If you fail to get to 100, start
from one again. I suspect this would work just as well for women.
also going to need an erogenous zone. Ideally it's your nipples.
If you're lucky enough to already have them activated that's
great, if not they
can be activated.
They say pinching, tickling, twiddling, nipping, biting can all work too, apparently.
Check out this video below for some tips
exercises or pelvic floor exercises, are also important. On
urinating, try stopping halfway through, then restarting - repeat
this a few times. This makes the chain of events that much easier
to all happen. Something a little like this guy perhaps, though
to avoid what he's going through, it may pay to sit down till you
get good at it. At first it will feel awkward but in time it may
become your preferred
Like a lot of self improvement, it just takes practise. It's normal that while still learning,
you'll go over the edge and ejaculate. But perseverance brings
rewards - once you have learnt, you'll find ejaculation all a
little ho-hum in comparison. At first you won't be sure, but with
time (a few days) you'll start to find the orgasms increasing in
intensity and you literally won't want to ejaculate.
you have a lot of spare time on your hands, be careful not to
over do it. Probably an hour of it's any amount.... you'll figure
One Multi-Orgasmic man said: "learning this alone is easy, you don't need a full hard on, get a bit of oil, stick your stuff between your thighs either lying on your side or on your back, squeeze gently, and go for it. Your mood, your energy levels, will all influence the outcome. If you're learning with a partner, they can help by not pushing you over the orgasmic edge". There are methods listed in the book to help here.
analogy that might help is it's a bit like changing gears in a
car... in neutral you're just thinking about it- (uh-oh here it
comes!) first gear: lightest brushing of your pecs and nips,
second gear: lightest twisting of your nipples left and right and
lightest pressure of your inner thighs on your penis, as the wave
starts to hit go into third gear: where you increase the pressure
on your nips and between your thighs. This orgasmic wave can be
ridden for minutes at a time!